“What Can I Do???”

I have seen a lot of this recently in response to recent tragedies. There is a common reaction when a societal injustice or tragedy is spotlighted and the person seeing that issue discussed openly and passionately feels uncomfortable for any of the following reasons: recognition that there is injustice, resistance to facing one’s own role in the silence around an injustice, fear of alienating others by adding one’s voice to the dissent around an issue, avoidance of one’s own biases or inherent privilege being exposed, unwillingness to explore change around an issue (such as changing one’s mind or admitting to possibly having been…

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Deception in Memory Care: Assisted Living Level of Care

After several years of working in multiple ways with long term care facilities, I would like to address several aspects of assisted living care and marketing that are becoming all too common in today’s long term care industry. These are things that are important to know if you are trying to place a person with dementia in facility and may not be explained to you by discharge planners or staff at facilities, either because it’s not commonly known (often due to misleading marketing) or it’s something an assisted living doesn’t like to acknowledge. Keep in mind that some of these details may…

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